Destiny ????

So, here I am again...

After such a long time, I know...

But Ab Kya kare yaar, Life is a bitch! Bcz if it was a Slut, it would be easy! 
Jokes apart!
Because you guys know na...
Destiny...! 
First of all let me tell you that I am really not fond of this term "Destiny." 

Actually the thing is from last some days, I've been struggling lots with motivation. There are such a lot of things I want to do... make... and be!

We’re always growing, converting, turning into reality, recognise the self, we need to constantly be curious about who we are.

And I've gotten to that factor.... that, in preference to taking movement, I just need to lie down, throw the covers over my head, and do nothing. Really... just nothing!

So, yaah, I was damn busy in doing nothing!

Motivation hi nahi mil raha tha yaar... 

I was not able to write something new, I was not able to design something creative (btw, I am a graphic designer).

But still... Not getting any kind of motivation is a really scary thing! 

Even life is not going interesting.

And the worst thing is guys "Destiny" 

I was sure short about thing that only 2 things are there in destiny's hand, "Love" & "Accident(Death)"  Because these things will just happen! When they want to and the way they want to. And we don't have any control on them.

All other things are up to us. What we Do? How We Do?; Designs our future and life. Life is nothing but a reflection of our thoughts. Hum jaisa sochenge, waise hoga! Jis Najar se dekhenge, Waise hi dikhega...

But... From last some days, I have experienced that Some things are really not in our hand even after everything is getting done on right way...! Choti-choti baate thi, per agar hum choti-choti baatose bhi agar kuch na Sikh paye then... Ignore! (bcz, you got my point)

But, Then... I was like, it's Ohkay..  maybe something great and busy stuff is waiting on my way! 

Then I started looking for an inspiration! Motivational quotes, videos, movies... sab dekh kar ho gaya...

Ghum kar bhi ho gaya... But.. all in vain.

But yaah, at that time I realize some things, which I just wanted to share with you.

first is

"KNOW YOURSELF!"

Try to understand yourself. Your plus points, minus points.

What you really worth? What can you do? Which thing make you best.

and then

"ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE!"

Accept... not only your best and win but also your flaws, your failure!

say "Whatever and whoever I am today, only and only I am responsible for it! Directly or Indirectly!"

Accepting this really works! Because when we accept ourselves, karma starts accepting us. And you know very well how karma plays his game! 

And btw if you can't understand yourself and can't accept who you are, you will not be able to understand and accept others. Situation, Person, Your Loved ones! No one! 

"TRUST YOURSELF!"

Trust what you can do! Have faith in you! If you have trust in yourself then only Universe will trust you! And when Universe trusts you, there is no chance of your failure!

What you want to do is,

first - Know your worth!

second - Trust yourself

and last, WORK BLOODY HARD!!!

And last and most Important

"BE POSITIVE!"

No matter in what situation you've stuck, No matter how things going terribly wrong... Just be positive! 

Think & Say "Everything is gonna all right! Maybe not today, but tomorrow! Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes it's good for me, sometimes not! So what? It's absolutely okay! Maybe I'll learn something!"

Failure never define Who we are? What define us is "How we react and what we do after that failure?"

I have learned these things. And I have to tell you guys these things really really works.

Just be bloody positive! Work Hard! And be the Destiny's favourite Child! And you will be Unstoppable!"